Lol.. the most stylish babywearer.. LOL.. I was the ONLY baby wearer.. There were two other babies.. who's mama's had tired arms because we all three were standing at the end of the wedding.
I have 5 different types of carriers right now.. and I've had 4 others over the years. I am so glad I have never spent much money on a sling/carrier because I can lose them fairly easily too. I've had friends make them, I've made my own based on what I've seen of other people's.
When I wear Elias on my back, I use a high back mei-tie mostly.. let me see if I have a photo.
see.. this is me folding my laundry in my room, on my bed.
See.. his head is tipped back.. he's asleep.. but his back is fully supported by the mei-tie
Sombra